Here are some tips on how to attract a mature-minded, middle-income, intelligent, godly, well-adjusted and potential future wife. But, firstly, may I stress that our approach differs with one's level of maturity, experience, and godliness.
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What is the Feminist Movement and how relevant it is to our understanding of marital and family relationships? Is the assertion of most wives that they are better off without their weak husbands the ideal model to follow?
Continue ReadingCultivate Love Like Planting A Seed
Can Love be Educated or Cultivated? Loving someone you don't love at first is one of the mysteries that is in love. I knew of a good looking guy who married a widow having eight children from her first husband. Or, have you heard of a teenager marrying an old man she hated? But then later on the young girl found herself falling in love with him. In short, love can be cultured and educated. Hence, the expression, "Teach yourself to love him (or her)"
Continue ReadingStrange Thoughts Misunderstanding Love
Funny or strange thoughts about love continue to come and go like unwanted visitors of many <a href="https://bythisverse.com/future-wife-needs-love-understanding/">healthy relationships</a>. Have you heard about the so-called "5 Bs" that a man must require from a woman before deciding to marry her? I was a high schooler when I first heard some strange thoughts about love. They said that the ideal woman has "5 Bs," the acronym for 1) Beauty; 2) Brain; 3) Background; 4) Behavior; and 5) Bank Book.
Continue ReadingUnderstanding Erotic Love—A Key Relationship Builder
There are four types of love: 1) Philia or close friendship or brotherly love (Romans 12:10); 2) Agape or selfless, sacrificial, unconditional love (e.g. Christ's love - John 14:21); 3) Eros (erotic) or physical and sensual love, e.g., between husband and wife (1 Corinthians 7:8-9; 4) Storge or family love (Exodus 20:12). Understanding erotic love is a key relationship builder. In this article, I want to explore on erotic or eros love.
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